enough with the weight crap

just wanted to post that I will (hopefully) not be writing too much more about my job.
it's just been in my head, so I had to let it out. hope no one was too bored by it...
much madness today, a semi-confrontation originating from my co-worker re: authority. From what I could tell, she feels like I talk down to her. I think that it doesn't have so much to do with my "job position" vs. her "job position," but involves her needing to learn certain things about life and me wanting to convey these things, but then having no goddamn patience to do it in a sugarcoated way. I am also assuming that I must at least occasionally use a more authoritative cadence in my voice, because I am trying to break things down logically and am not using the typical valley girl voice that every chick seems to emulate. what, I am supposed to use my phone voice? legend is it's like friggin molasses.
so anyway, am just learning how to use this beast of a weapon which my brain and all the crap I've been doing to it lately to open it up.
it's kinda like I am a whole new person.
or not.
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